Tuesday, March 6, 2012

A Lonely Buffet

This happened towards the end of 2011. I always thought it is wierd to eat alone let alone a buffet. It was until recent that I knew how to dine alone. Especially so when I travel alone overseas and often had to have the breakfast buffet at the hotel... alone. Not too long ago, NUS also had a campaign to dare people to eat alone. Since I am NUS trained, I should be able to eat pretty much, without anyone else sitting with me. So, I went for a buffet at M hotel last year thanks to a voucher I got from my dad. So here are the photos and it should pretty much what I had at the reetaurant. Probably I left a plate of sashimi out that's all. Everything that was taken in the photos here all ended up in my belly.

Is it a lot?

This is the entrance where I was told to wait. Apparently, there were many people who were here for the buffet. It cost like close to SGD 50 I think per head.


The place I was seated


Some meat and it was pretty much sashimi from here on...









Ended with some desserts.

The conclusion I drew from this is that eating alone is very sad. It makes the food taste bad actually. It is often not about the food but the company that really matters. I can say out loud that a bowl of instant noodles eaten at home with my wife tastes so so so good. However, when I have the most expensive seafood in front of me with some officials in China for some duty trip, the food often is not appetising and I can hardly swallow them....

Monday, March 5, 2012

2012 - not a racist post

Should have posted this long ago...

Typing this in the plane now. It has been an busy yet interesting start to the new year. For one, this is my first time spending the Lunar New Year away from home. Yes, Qin and I went overseas as it was the long weekend and I thought I was the only one but I was so wrong. Traveling was so popular that I nearly couldnt' get onboard. Well, we went to Perth and from there went over to Adelaide. We did the great ocean road and drove to Melbourne where we fly back to Singapore. It was summer there and Perth was pretty hot. However, as soon as we hit the road, we were suprised by the pleasant weather in Australia. The plan was this. We will fly to Perth on Friday night and then spend the night in Perth airport it self and venture to Perth city to have a look before our domestic flight to Adelaide that afternoon. From Adelaide, we will rent a car after the first night stay at Mercure and then drive down to Victor Harbour. It is a very short drive down but I thought it is good to have an easy start. Somemore, we are going to the clevland wildlife park. This is one cool park as you get to hand feed the kangaroos. They are pretty tamed and I know Qin would love this. She was hoping like the kangaroos around the park. Oops, suppose to be a secret. Then, the plan was that we will stay in Victor Harbour for a night before driving off to this town called Robe. Then this town called Portland and then Apollo Bay, followed by Baccarat and then into Melbourne where we will spend 2 nights. So that is a total of 9 nights. Well, things didn't go as planned. When we were in Portland, we decided to do some crazy things and thought of driving to the Grampians. According to my good friend who has studied in Melbourne for a number of years, "Grampains is a must visit. It is more beautiful than the blue mountains". So we decided to take up the challenge to drive all the way up north and do a little diversion. Man, this was one long drive. Basically, from morning 9am all the way till night time around 9pm. It is a little risky in retrospect. The saving grace was that it was summer then and the day is longer than usual which means that we have more day light to drive. Well, one of the nights, when we were in Portland to be exact, we drove out of Portland and did some night driving. It was really cool driving in the dark and you get to see a lot of wildlife running about. There were kangaroos, rabbits etc. Anyway, from Grampians we finally made our way to Apollo Bay and after we checked-in and put down our bags, it was almost totally dark already. If we were late by about half hour, probably will be caught in total pitch darkness driving in.

This trip to Australia has made me think of many things, especially after interacting with the locals or not interacting with them actually. What happened was that when we were taking the domestic flight over to Adelaide, someone sat wrongly and took our seats instead. What are the chances of 2 person sitting wrongly? Well it happened. We were given 12E and 12F. Well, I think I can be considered as a pretty regular flyer by now and I do not think I'll get my seats mixed up. The guy who was siting on 12E was a Chinese and he immediately stood up and said sorry before making his way out. The other guy, was an Aussie and he had his laptop opened up and was busy at work. Well, if you are a regular traveller, you'll know that you only use your laptop after take off and when the seat belt sign has been switched off. Well, at least this is the case for this airline I am flying with. So my guess is that he is a noob. Nevermind, he insisted that he was correct and I was wrong. "This is MY seat". He said. "The row number is written here" as he pointed towards the number above his seat, at the overhead compartment area. Well, the ground staff may have made a mistake by issuing a duplicate boarding pass and so I didn't want to kick a big fuss but wait for a cabin crew to come and have a look. By now, the passengers in the area were all looking as this man had raised his voice. I was like a stupid Chinese and all the whitemen are thinking I'm the dumb dumb who cannot even read a number. After a while, the guy realised that he was seated wrongly. His seat was 13F and not 12F. He said softly "Oops, I made a mistake, I'll move back". The gentleman on 12D then looked at me and shook his head. He was a 1st generation Australian and he too was discriminated because of his race when he first came. So he completely understand how I felt. He also said that if I was not an Asian, I will probably not be treated like that. Anyways, this was not the only incident throughout this trip. We went to a restuarant, samething. And another case in a parking lot. I wasn't really offended by such things. It was in fact thought provoking. What caused some Aussies to be this racist? I saw milkshakes being thrown at my colleagues when I was there many years back. Many of them thought that we are there to fight for jobs with the locals and hence, hate non-Aussies to the guts. However, they are also not the locals if we want to be precise. THe aborigines are. They came and look their land to call their own and then form an exclusive club and deny the acceptance of other people like asians. And the scariest thing is that this bears close similarity with the situation we have in Singapore. Chinese, being the majority, didn't originate from Singapore. We came from CHina a few generations back. At present, we are also facing an issue with the influx of foreigners. Be it talent or labour, what difference does it make? The culture is different and they too are competing with us for jobs, houses, wives, husbands, food, etc. How are we reacting then? SHould we be racists and throw milkshakes at them along orchard road? Should we outrightly discriminate them? But if we do accept them, what is going to happen to our home? The place where we worked hard to defend (serve NS) and give it to new citizens like Jet Li and Gong Li? Allow foreigners to come in so that our kids are facing enormous pressure in schools as the elites from all over wants to come to singapore and partake our education system? Slog our lives away only to realise that the HDB flat seems forever out of reach as the rich Chinese can buy it using cold hard cash? These are issues that everyone face. In fact, these problems have been brought up at almost every rally during the election period just last year. What is our government going to do about it. I just read a report that LKY has called us to accept foreigners and that will prevent us from becoming like Japan. I'm not sure if he said we will regret if we choose not to accept foreigners though.

After returning from Australia, I was in China the next day. A drastic difference in temperature and culture as well. I first visited China close to 20 years back. Back then, I was in Yunnan and I totally didn't like it. Throughout the trip, I wanted to return to Singapore so badly. I enjoyed everything in Singapore. that was in the early 90s. Everything was hopeful. The common understanding was that if you worked hard, you'll make it in life. We have a great government with great policies and everyone was happy. Many people supported the government as shown in the polling results. Now, CHina is not that bad. Singapore on the other hand seems to lose its shine. Just take a walk at MBS, you'll think you have gone overseas. OK, that is a tourist place, so let's take the coffeeshop in our heartlands for example. It is the same, foreigners everywhere. I come from Jurong and when I went back to Jurong recently, it is totally unrecognizable. Way too many foreigners providing labour to the factories there. In fact, the only time that I saw lesser foriegners was when I attended the rally during election time. I really enjoyed the rallies. Not because of anything but because it reminded me of my childhood days. Where we will go satay club to eat after shopping at marina shopping centre. There were Singaporeans everywhere and I am proud to be a Singapoean. I remember attending National day Parade and when the fighter jets flew past, I was so proud. I saw many Singaporeans tearing then. Because we know that we all had a part to play in this. Now, when I see a fighter jet flying past, I do not know if that pilot inside is a Singaporean or not. When I was in China airport, i saw so many Chinese speaking folks. You know they are from CHina by their dressing, by their spitting and by their very loud speaking as if the person they are talking to is on the other mountain across the valley. Then when they were clearing immigration, I saw them taking out a Singapore passport. Wow, I thought they managed to buy a Singapore red passport cover. Then I was wrong, it was really a SIngapore passport. This influx of new citizens is indeed true. I can see that they are really proud and happy to be holding onto the red passport. They must be so grateful to our government for taking them in. Anyone knows if new citizens have voting rights? The rest of the Chinese passengers were holding onto Singapore work permits. In time to come, they will exchange the green card for the red passport. That is when our Children's generation will suffer. Back to Perth, I noticed many Singapoeans who have migrated over. I chatted with a staff in red rooster and she was from Singapore before and is now an Australian citizen. I asked if it was better in Perth but she too cannot give me a definate yes. Perhaps she was also treated like a 2nd class citizen there. So, is staying in Singapore better? Or Migrating better? both cases lead to being a 2nd class citizen no? Is there anything that anyone can do to change this? It is a huge thing and it concerns many lives. What kind of pace we want out future to have. WHat kind of pressures in life do we want our future generation to have? THese are questions that demand answers. Who knows that the future holds? We know. We decide. The future is ours.

Saturday, December 31, 2011

Wrapping up the year

As 2011 comes to a close, it is time to evaluate and plan for 2012.

2011 has been an eventful year. With many things happening. Qin and I changed our jobs. Massive changes in Ministry for both of us. And I have been flying and seeing places that I have never been before. Brother moved to be my neighbour. Parents relocated to Central Singapore.

As I was flipping my passport the other day, I noticed for 2011, my traveling has significantly increased compared to 2010. Both for work and non-work.

1X Taiwan
5X Vietnam
1X Thailand
5X China
4X Malaysia
1X Macau
1X Hongkong

With most of the travelling happening af the 2nd half of the year, it is like 2 to 3 times a week. Interesting. Wonder what 2012 will be like.

Will probably blog more about food the next time.

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Hanoi - Dec 2011

Decided to put in some photos to my otherwise very boring blog. Hoping to revive this blog after a long while...

And so, my Final Trip for 2011 was to Hanoi. Huiqin came to join me for 3 days and 2 nights. It is a city that has nothing much. Or at least, nothing much caught my attention.

So I picked Huiqin from the airport and here we are in a cab.


After resting in the hotel, we decided to talk a walk out in the town area. We were putting up near the Hoan Kiem Lake. This is the place where there is the highest concentration of tourists.

Generally, it was cold, but not too cold that it was uncomfortable. The air was polluted like all cities and especially so in Hanoi.



We decided to watch the water puppet show but it was so dark inside and the photos didn't turn out well.

For dinner, we went to the famous "Cha Ca". It means grilled fish. Ca means fish. In fact, the entire street was named after this dish. There are a number of stalls selling this traditional dish, but this stall was the best or at least that was what I was told.

This was actually more like fried fish rather than grilled fish. The shop only sells 1 item and that is this dish. Plain Noodles go with it, however, I cannot remember what the noodles are called.

It was a really old building and I am sure it will not pass BCA checks. As you can see, this is really a touristy place. Ang Moh behind...


After dinner, we went to the lake for a walk. I was told that "when you feel stressed, just sit by the lake and you will feel very relaxed".




The Next day, we went to Halong Bay. This was what we have been looking forward to and seriously, this was the highlight of this trip. We were so looking forward to rekindling the times we had at Doubtful Sound in NZ. We are in a Chinese Junk here.



Halong Bay is famous all around the world and it is one of those heritage sites that conservationists are conserving. Imagine a hilly area that got flooded. That is how it is like. I was told that during the Qing Dynasty, the Chinese empire actually spread as far south as to Halong Bay. I'm impressed....






The symbol of Halong Bay is this so called "Fighting Cock" boulders. It is unique as it stands as if 2 fighting cocks are facing each other. I explain to Huiqin and she said I was "Talking Cock". but it is true...





There are people living here in the Bay.



We then decided to explore the inner caves and this was by row boat by the locals.






We walked the caves too...



The journey back from Halong Bay to Hanoi was again 3.5 hrs on a very bumpy road and in a very cramped van. It was not pleasureable at all.


Then it was more street walking the next morning before we leave for the airport back to Singapore.



Bought street food too. This is their "donuts". There's green bean paste inside too. The sasame flavor was the best!



Last cup of coffee at Highlands Coffee.

Monday, December 19, 2011

SMRT

How can any blogger resist the temptation to blog abt this latest, most happening event in Singapore. It is as epic as the great flooding of orchard road. Citizens are screeming to get rid of smrt's ceo. Our PM has done the popular move to call for an Inquiry of the incident.

What more can I say? everyone's attacking SMRT's profits over the past many years. I personally am not affected at all as I was overseas then. However, i though it would be nice to recap what we are all familiar with 1 year ago.

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Glad

I was glad I was glad I went to the house of God last Sunday. Felt good listening to Pst Phil Pringle.

I'm happy also that our friend has finally got attached and to a Christian girl. Happy for him.

My project has also some progress, less stress now.

And my flight is confirmed. Leaving for China on thurs and back on Sat.

Next week, I'll be leaving on wednesday and back on friday...

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Recently...

It certainly is shocking to know that an impt man in church is leaving. And it seems for good... The takeaway I've got is Never be quick to judge. Better if we can Not Judge at all. Easier said than done. Let the judging be done by God.

I was talking to someone and this was the advice he gave me too. Do not judge.

I was recently in Guangzhou and had dinner with an ex-military colonel. What happen was that in his organizstion, there is someone who has a very heck care attitude. lazy is what some ppl call him. Totally bo chap. Basically, every other week, this staff will be on mc a day. He will come late and leave early. However, the ex-colonel said that we should try to understand him and know the history, then you will know why he is like that. Asking around, I realised y. Apparently, the company did some stuff to him and he was devastated. Perhaps that's y he is not sacked to date.

As I take on various projects in my company, I realise the importance to understand the history of things. Seek to know what was transpired before and know what has already happened. Then we will know how and why we are where we are.

I begin to see things in a different light after having that dinner in Guangzhou. Do not judge. What goes around, comes around. I must remember not to judge others. I hope others will not judge me too... Cos at the end, when we begin to see the reasons, we may look like a fool.

Ok, a quick update of what is happening in my life. I've been to Ha noi and Guangzhou. In fact, going back to China soon, perhaps this coming week. Not confirm though. Then next month, back to Hanoi. One day, I woke up wondering which country I was in and realised I was in my own home in Singapore.

My bro has moved his house. Abt 2mins from my place. My parents are moving soon too..